2012年10月20日星期六

an active imagination, psychoanalysis




The romance is like death. The lovelorn means lover's death, which means their own death, which means the death of two of the world. Therefore, sometimes painful romance than death. Perhaps a breakup, we will not be so extreme, but the lovelorn pain can definitely be regarded as one of the most painful experiences in the previous life. Tears, pain, insomnia is often associated with romance come. But there is a singing well, how much pain, you become how mature. The lovelorn would make a rapid growth. Can safely climb over the mountain of lovelorn people, you will have to climb the mountain of physical, he clearly knew the mountains what, but also know how to avoid danger. He learned judge know which mountain to climb UGG Kenly Boots, and what should be cherished. Experienced lovelorn, will be treated more carefully next feelings. In mountaineering when we occasionally encounter some problems, this time the most important thing is what you learn when dealing with difficult. Love when we will get the expansion; lovelorn, we'll be shrinking. Love when the two are combined, you will feel powerful, once lovelorn, lonely you extremely vulnerable to injuries. Our world suddenly left with yourself. You used to be his sole, this feeling of happiness vanished, left alone, you worthless. Around the kind of care is gone, you as a weakness of the child, felt extreme shame and helplessness. Dependent on others you have now to solve all this harsh reality to make you think the dead. But lovelorn, the most fundamental and the most common pain, do you think he seems to be stripped of his clothes, felt very ashamed, helpless. Because you're not to anyone else, nor did expose the heart is exposed to the other side. Especially less confident people will become more inferior, I feel like that person to have seen the depths of your soul saw you ugliest suddenly gone. Lovelorn at any time. Whether it is to love each other and soon fell in love for many years, even after the wedding. Love cooling, are usually manifested start with something small. In general, the manifestations of each pair of lovers is not the same. However, some basic change is the same. The tone of voice changes, and on the other side of the call will become no longer use the nickname instead solemnly call each other names. Early signs of romance is often done before, not now. Feel quite right party put forward the request to talk about it, the other said impatiently Turning back to the whole person gradually become indifferent. Felt wrong party is unhappy, but they know what to do. This time, even if you feel a problem, try to think the benefits. Their own to weave a so-called hope, reluctant to admit the reality. Knowing that the other side is lying, still filled with disapproval. For their own dreams, continue to deceive ourselves, hoping to seize all opportunities can be undone. Even when lovelorn reality, you still refused to believe, continue to live in delusion. Why, because love is the hope that everything is a reason to be alive. This article from the past touching story but in the end UGG Jimmy Choo Sora Sale, you still found lover has been away from the heart, you, you realized that you have to do anything. Then, only when the other party to break off, you will face the reality. With a little bit of feel from your face reality, need to go through a long process. The lovelorn outcome usually is the injured party to endure suffering, and despair, and finally paralysis and hesitation, slowly return to normal. This long, painful process, the party suffered lovelorn even made some of the relative lack of sensible things, call each other endlessly through after they said nothing, and then hang up; went to the other side nearby, see TA and who together; pretend chance encounter. The problem is you knowing that to do so is very shameful, and yet can not help myself. This time lost the dedication and love of the lovers of the dedication of the lovers is completely different. When in love, this dedication to love more freely, only bondage lovers parted dedication. When this process can not control the anger will be in my heart. Still, most of the people out of the woods. The lovelorn tornado scratched after the love had become a shadow of hearts like a love video. To allow the footage stops screened Otherwise it will always vaguely hazy playing until one day something. So overcome lovelorn process seem to have forgotten dead lover. Psychologist John, Bobby said to forget the process is divided into four stages: This article is from the past touching story of the first stage is despair, numbness gradually. The second stage is to miss the late lover, panicky, everywhere, looking for love. The third stage is the stage of collapse and despair. Life to the meaning of life, cut off contact with the social, gradually isolate ourselves. Entire the people numb unbearable, suffering from insomnia torture become haggard and emaciated UGG Bailey Button Fancy. Recollections of the past, the past can no longer be retrieved extremely disappointed. The final stage is the recovery phase. The pain gradually reduce this time, began to face the reality. The dead person is buried deep in my heart Timberland 2012 Boots Sale, mixed feelings on his memory. Love fade away, unfortunately, but the results are not necessarily negative. In many cases, a failed love affair will make people grow, people become stronger. Of course, these may have to experience a few months or a few years time prove. Like Disk Defragmenter on the computer, do it again combing the entire mood, generate new ideas. Some artists, a breakup, tend to create a better work, is the truth. So, advocated an active imagination, psychoanalysis, Jung says romance is you experience inner baptism, see demons product, but the outbreak of an amazing force. That cry of Eros, the builders of the city. Some people, even after breaking up UGGs Chrystie, emotionally still can not let go, become another way of lingering. On the other side of the memory and the time spent with the other public into another manifestation. Therefore, when they encounter difficulties, always to the ex-husband or ex-wife for help, the other usually is to put aside all the effort to help solve the problem. Aftertaste lost love is a very important capability that we have. The movie If Ilsa did not get married, her husband is not the leader of the anti-Nazi, in case she escaped a day later; in Gone with the Wind Scarlett as early as one day wake up, or Rhett Butler to Scarlett O'Hara a little time to wait and see us through the own Lenovo plot, weaving this beautiful dream of the pursuit of permanent love. That is, if not this or that causes broken love, the feelings continue must be the sweetest. Therefore, we are still in constant pursuit of perfect love, and still love illusions Northface Gore Tex Sale. But often unfortunate love like a dark cloud for a long time enveloped us. If your mental endurance was poor, unfortunate love and you will lose confidence and affect your judgment in the future. Pain and unable to extricate themselves, self-deception, continue to idealize each other. Feelings on to him, the loss of the capacity to love. (Past touching story)

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